There are both similarities and differences. Some of the responses to violence from a partner are the same. Being abused by somebody you love and trust can be confusing and bewildering, and any victim whether male or female may wonder if it's their fault. It can be harder for men to cope with the emotional impact of domestic abuse.

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Admitting to being abused is difficult for anybody.  Sometimes men often don't have the social networks in place to easily tell a friend or family member.

It may not be easy to recognize domestic violence against men. Early in the relationship, similarly to women, a partner might seem attentive, generous and protective but later these incidents turn out to be controlling and frightening. Initially, the abuse might appear as isolated incidents. A partner might apologize and promise not to abuse again.